Wedding Music Requests: Let Your Guests Vote Digitally

Why collect music requests?

Everyone has 'that one song' that gets them on the dance floor. If your DJ or band knows these songs, the party is guaranteed to be good. Nothing is worse than an empty dance floor at 10 PM.

At the same time, you avoid songs nobody wants to hear. A wish list gives your DJ the perfect foundation.

How to collect music requests digitally

Forget paper cards on the tables — they get lost, are illegible, and never reach the DJ. Digital works better:

• Via link in the invitation: Add a 'music wish' link to your digital invitation. Guests can comfortably enter their favorite song from home.
• Via QR code on the table: On the wedding day itself — scan the QR code, enter the song, done. No app needed.
• Via your wedding website: A dedicated 'Music Wishes' section on your wedding page.
• Set a deadline: Give a deadline (e.g., 1 week before the wedding) so the DJ gets the list in time.

Which music categories to ask about?

Give your guests guidance on what kind of songs you're looking for:

• First dance: The song for your opening dance — often chosen by the couple, but suggestions are welcome.
• Party bangers: Songs guaranteed to get everyone on the dance floor.
• Dinner music: Quiet background music for eating — jazz, acoustic, indie.
• No-go songs: Songs that absolutely should not be played (yes, they exist).
• Special for guest groups: Grandma wants oldies, colleagues want 90s hits — there's room for both.

Tips for working with your DJ

A wish list is just the beginning. Here's how to work effectively with your DJ:

• Send the wish list at least 2 weeks in advance — the DJ needs prep time.
• Mark must-play songs (absolutely required) and nice-to-have songs.
• Discuss the order: When does it get loud? When quieter? Is there a midnight hit?
• Trust the DJ: They know their audience and know when which song works. The list is a guide, not a rigid program.

Live band or DJ?

Both have pros and cons. A DJ is more flexible and cheaper (€800–1,500), a live band creates unique atmosphere (€2,000–5,000). Tip: Many couples book both — band for the evening, DJ for the night. With a band, music requests are harder to fulfill since the repertoire is limited. Ask beforehand which songs the band can play.

Conclusion

Collecting music requests digitally is easy, free, and makes the party better. Your guests love hearing 'their' song, and your DJ has a perfect foundation. Win-win for everyone.